I think so, too. Even when someone means well... I don't think it's possible to respect someone you aren't honest with.

[ So she's a little glad, even if their topic is murder. But his observation gets another nod of agreement from her. ]

Especially now that they've put the idea to everyone. Someone might just get scared, or want to find a way back more quickly, or be willing to try because we're a group of strangers. I don't want to think badly of anyone. But it's more realistic to think they've got their own circumstances too, isn't it?